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Kelsea Stahler

Kelsea Stahler is a blogger and journalist living, writing, and dating in Brooklyn.

When To Follow The Person You’re Dating on Social Media

There are few ways you can make sure you’re not following the person you’re into too soon. And keep in mind, these don’t necessari…

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Even at Nerd Speed Dating, There Are No Shortcuts to Love

At Nerd Nite, my quirks weren’t cute or even endearing.

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TV is My Boyfriend (But We’re in an Open Relationship)

Relationships have come and gone, but television and its many, many stories have always been at the ready whenever I’ve needed it.

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Can You Be a Feminist and Still Let Your Date Pick Up the Check?

Our pay isn’t equal yet, but that doesn’t settle the issue.

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How Being a Jerk Will Make Guys Call You Back

Remember: the goal is to keep ‘em guessing, not have them fall for a text-drawn version of Mean Girls’ Regina George.

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11 Horrible Dating Tips We Learned While Watching ‘Mixology’

These are some of the worst things you could possibly do in a bar full of hot strangers.

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How Refusing to Celebrate Valentine’s Day Changed My Life

I’m not going to revel in a holiday that doesn’t revel in me.

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The 18 Stages of Being Single During Winter

Couples are about stumbling adorably in winter coats and scarves, chuckling over hot coffee and warming each others hands and we s…

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How to Be Single on New Year’s Eve

Luckily, a little preparation can set you right for an awesome end cap to the year. Follow these steps and you’ll be fine.

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How Watching ‘Trophy Wife’ Can Improve Your Love Life

As most ‘Trophy Wife’ viewers know, the series has a disturbingly balanced take on what it means to love someone amid a sea of com…

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The Single Girl’s Gift Guide: Holiday Loot For You And Your Ladies

We’ve got all that handled for you with a few suggestions of way to treat yourself and your fellow singletons for every budget lev…

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The 25 Sexiest NFL Players of 2013

So without further ado – or regard for overall NFL ranking or how many points they’d win in a Fantasy Football matchup – these are…

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Why ‘The Mindy Project’ Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Single

Somehow, repeated viewing of ‘The Mindy Project’ has produced one unlikely side effect in this perpetual single New Yorker: a ton …

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What I Learned From Dating Against My Type

I reached the point at which something had to give, and by something, I mean me and my shallow understanding of “my type.”

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How Harrison Ford Ruined Me For Other Men

To this day, I’m unable to shake my affinity for his characters. Each encounter just reinforces my condition and thanks to years a…

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How It Feels To Be The Only Single Bridesmaid at the Wedding

The RSVP came: I resolutely wrote in a “1” in the party box and succumbed to my fate. I was a “1” and not a “2” and that’s all the…

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Listening to Pop Music Lyrics Will Really Screw Up Your Love Life

It’s time we gave ourselves a stern talking to: the following pop songs are for fun, not love advice.

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Calling a Woman a ‘Prude’ Is Just as Terrible As Calling Her a ‘Slut’

While the shaming of the word “slut” has spread acceptance of women’s sexual liberation, it is a woman’s right to not use that lib…

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5 Things Every Bride Can Do to Make Their Bridesmaids’ Lives Better

If you’re lucky enough to be adored by a bride who couldn’t conceive of her special day without you, then the constant planning, c…

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How to Build Your Perfect Celebrity Franken-Boyfriend, ‘American Horror Story’-Style

All this crafting got us thinking: what if we could create the perfect boyfriend with the help of all our favorite celebrities?

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