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Terri Trespicio

You Don’t Need Power Tools to Be a Feminist

I don’t need to hang my own cabinets. If that isn’t power, what is?

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No, You Shouldn’t Be Working That Hard on Your Relationship

To believe your relationship is a job (at a startup, no less, which essentially they all are), is to think that all your energy sh…

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Oprah’s Right, Marriage Could Be the End of Your Relationship

Why? Because marriage changes everything. For better or for worse.

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Why It’s (Obviously) OK to Date a Guy Who Makes Less Money Than You

To assume that a guy has to earn a certain amount—or out earn you—is a limiting belief that’s becoming less true by the minute.

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Why Huma Deserves More Respect Than You’re Giving Her

She cares more about her marriage and her decision than she does about what you or I think of it. And if that isn’t strength, I do…

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Why You Should Date a Younger Man

You’ve told yourself you don’t really want a younger man. You use it as a reason to blow them off, pare back your options, and fue…

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Three Terrible Excuses You’re Using to Stay in the Wrong Relationship

In honor of Independence Day, let me free you from the tyranny of these stultifying beliefs and all-around bad reasons you’re stay…

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Can an Amazing Ex-Lover Ruin You for Future Sex?

If you’ve already had the best sex of your life…what’s next?

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The Secret to Getting Him to Commit

Fact is, you can get anyone to commit to you. It’s not rocket science.

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The Improv-Acting Secret That Will Transform Your Dating Life

There are two things that scare the shit out of everyone—everyone—when it comes to dating: Fear of the unknown, and fear of being …

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Don’t Wait Till You’re Perfect to Date (Because That Won’t Happen)

You’re not an Apple product set to launch sometime in 2014. You may think you’ll be shinier, cooler, or more desirable in the futu…

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Why You’re Lying When You Say ‘I Need a Break From Dating’

If you’re thinking of taking a break from dating “to focus on yourself,” you’re doing yourself a big disservice. You’re also lying…

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Why You Should Want a Man with Baggage

Looking for partners or lovers or any rich and rewarding connection is NOT like picking out a shirt. You’re not looking for the on…

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7 Reasons Why You Should Want to Date an Older Woman

If you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. Big time.

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Why You Should Forget Fate If You Want to Find Love

Fate has a pretty sweet job — she gets all the credit for finding you romance, and none of the blame.

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Stop Obsessing Over Your ‘How We Met’ Story and Just Meet

The pressure to have the best, funniest, quirkiest, most magical “story of origin” is not only given far too much weight, but it’s…

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‘You Go Girl’ Advice Is Toxic to Your Dating Life

While the phrase itself has been rendered impotent from ridiculous overuse, there’s a dark side to you-go-girl mentality that coul…

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