Great First Date, But No Follow-Up? Here’s Why (ATTN: Mike the I-Banker)

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Earlier this week, we weighed the pros and cons of dating an investment banker. We tried to be fair and say that there were certainly two sides to the argument. But if you’ve been paying any attention to the Internet today, you know that a certain I-Banker named Mike is not exactly winning points in favor of Team IB. Read his angry letter to a woman he went on one date with he says gave him mixed signals and then didn’t respond to his voicemail or texts.

Mike, we feel you. We’ve been there. So here are some words of advice:

Had a Great First Date, But No Follow-Up? It’s Not You — It’s This

He Said/She Said: Why She Didn’t Call You Back
(And for the women: Why He Didn’t Call You Back)

How Do You “Break Up” With Someone You Just Started Dating? Is Silence Better Than Rejection?

Post-First Date Text Etiquette: Do You Agree With These Rules?

How to Be a Modern Gentleman

Are You “THAT Guy”? 15 Surefire Ways to Tell

Good luck out there!