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Should You Admit How Kinky You Are In Your Dating Profile?

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Redeye Chicago’s sex columnist Anna Pulley is tackling an interesting question that applies to dating profiles.

I broke up with my long-term boyfriend recently, and am thinking about re-activating my OkCupid account soon. One thing I discovered in my last relationship is that I’m interested in exploring kinkier sex, as long as it’s with someone I trust. My question is: How can I convey this on my profile? I feel like if I say it outright, I might attract a lot more skeezy guys or get explicit messages that I don’t want. Should I mention it at all, or save the kink talk for when I meet men in person?

–Tongue-Tied

Related: Should You Be Upfront About Your Kink In Your Profile?
Read her response here. And even if you don’t care, you’ll be interested to hear some of the tooOOootally kinky messages Ms. Pulley has received on OKCupid.

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