A List of Bisexual Problems You Probably Didn’t Realize Were Problems Unless You’re Bisexual

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bisexualprobWriter/performer Gaby Dunn can be counted on for two things: a solid laugh and an equally-stirring dose of insight. In her new video “A list of #BisexualProblems,” Dunn keeps it simple, taking to the vlogging medium to run through questions, concerns, and everyday hurdles she’s faced as a bisexual. The items on her “non-comprehensive lists” are totally logical, but it’s refreshing and revelatory to see someone put those feelings right out there.

For instance, Dunn recounts a recurring issue she has in social settings. She’ll introduce new people to her boyfriend, only to drop a line like, “Oh, my ex-girlfriend loved that song.” Cue the confusion for people without a fluid definition of sexuality. Dunn plays out the scenario with wry grace.


Matt Patches is a writer and reporter living in New York City. His work has been featured on New York Magazine’s Vulture,,, MTV, and he is the host of the pop culture podcast Operation Kino. He continues to love Groundhog Day.