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10 Incredibly Sexy Things Women Have No Idea They’re Doing

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There are so many lists and essays out there that are vague spin-off’s of “How to appear sexy to guys.” (And, lord knows, plenty of the inverse.)

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But isn’t it almost always the things people do naturally, things they have no idea they’re even doing, that end up being the most alluring? (See: my last girlfriend’s penchant for slow-dancing together in very public places. To this day, gaaaaaaah.)

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In that spirit, here are some sexy things that require zero practice, because you’re already doing them:

1. Holding eye contact that extra second

2. Buying a round of drinks for the group

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3. Laughing heartily, not just elegantly

4. Asking people the last good book they read

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5. Saying exactly what she wants to do next on a date — even if he already had something else planned

6. That thing where a thick strand of hair falls over one eye, and she doesn’t move it right away

7. Getting excited just talking about her work

8. Making fun of passersby

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9. Making friends with strangers

10. Calling out things that are boring, instead of feigning interest in them

What would you add to the list?

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