How Not to Get Bored With Sex in Your Longterm Relationship

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Esther Perel has made a career out of figuring out the secret to good sex with a longterm partner. So the author of Mating in Captivity and respected expert on couples and sexuality did what nearly every expert with a unique perspective and a strong voice did these days: she gave a TED talk. The result, an in-depth discussion of how longterm sex is a constant battle between our need for security and our desire for surprise, is certainly fascinating, and worth at least 1 listen (it’s the standard TED 20 minutes in length, so we don’t recommend diving in at your desk).