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10 Sexual Fantasies You Shouldn’t Be Afraid to Admit, As Divulged By Shy Redditors

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They’ve drawn up a “Do’s” and “Don’ts” list for asking out potential dates, they’ve pondered the most romantic gestures a couple can make for one another, and now the people of Reddit, the best forum of world understanding on the Internet, is turning their inquisitive crosshairs towards bedroom activity.

Sexual fantasies are difficult to reveal. Even the closest friend may pass judgment on a particular kink that crosses a moral line. It’s hard to tell. And yet the public forum of Reddit is so comforting to its users, so understanding as a hive mind, there’s little resistance to holding back when carnal desires on the table.

In a provocative thread full of harbored secrets (truths that thee initial inquisitor admits users may be too uncomfortable or too shy to normally discuss), Redditors male and female open up on their wildest sexual fantasies. And they’re not that outrageous. Many are success stories of people pitching the ideas to their significant others (“SO”). So as you read through, ask yourself this: Would you tell your partner that you were interested in experiencing one of these off-kilter exercises?

“I think I’d just really like to be dominated. I’d be willing to try handcuffs and blindfolds and spanking and all that. I guess I’ve just never tried to bring it up.” – NeverMeant125

“I’ve always thought it would be arousing to be face fucked. Not in a rough, degrading manner like you see in a lot of porn, but just in a way that would give him dominance and control, and put me in submissive heaven.” – otm75

“I like oil. Like, body oil, quite a bit. I wanted to slather my GF in it and well, make swwet love to her. She accepted, saying it would be interesting. I bought the oil. I came home one day, and the living room of our apartment was covered in a tarp. Greatest hour and a half of my life. I LOVE! LOVE OIL WRESTLING!” – cynical_asshole_

“It’s not possible, but i think it would be cool to switch bodies and feel what sex is like from the opposite perspective, it turns me on thinking about it.” – i_liek_breast_milk

“I’m attracted to fat. I’m a 20 year old normal sized female. I’ve known since I was 14 that the idea of anyone gaining weight, getting stuck in desks, etc turns me on. In fact, it’s damn near the only thing that will do so. I’m dating a skinny guy I find attractive, and I myself would hate being fat, so the whole thing is really weird. I’ve been trying to get into better shape, but at the same time the feeling of being full + stories about people gaining weight makes me wet, whether I like it or not. It’s confusing, and I’ve never told anyone.” – taw03009

“I’m into female transformation. Basically any sort of magical/sf transformation that causes her to lose control, leading to sex. Bimbofication, werewolf, BE, etc. I’ve tested the waters and she’s really not into it, even if it were possible.” – keoppai 

“I went to a strip club on my birthday. I met a woman who was there (not a stripper), probably in her 30’s. I made a joke, something along the lines of, “What’s a nice lady like you doing in a place like this?” We hit it off real well, then she invites me to her place. We go there, and I see a man there with a ring on him. I flip the fuck out, start heading to the door saying, “I’m sorry amigo, she didn’t say she was married!” He then explains that he wanted someone to fuck his wife while he watched. I was confused about his request, but I said fuck it, and did it anyway. I don’t know why, but I got this huge adrenaline rush out of it.” – Smurf_Poo

“I have a daddy/daughter fantasy. Sort of like a “I come home from class with a bad report card and daddy teaches me a rough lesson” sort of thing. The sick and wrong part of this just grabs my attention. I don’t have any inappropriate thoughts about my actual father, I think that’s gross (lol), but just the role play is something id like to try.” – LisaLulz

“You get about a dozen cakes. Both you and your partner wrestle and fight while smashing cake on each other until you both are so jazzed you can not hold back anymore. Trust me there isn’t anything better than a little frosting fellatio. Vanilla, chocolate, buttercream, or red velvet, whatever you fancy. It gets me all worked up just thinking about it.” – rickfinkel

“Kiiiinda weird, but despite the fact I’m the girliest girl in existence, I almost… feel like a gay man, if it makes sense? The dominant one. I want one of those cool strap-ons that give you all the sensations of blowjobs, penetration, etc. I honestly do not want anything inside of me, it freaks me out. I like boobs but I think it’s almost like I want guy bits down there. I’d almost think of it like gender dysphoria if it wasn’t for the fact I’m such a girl.” – clairakitty

“Only a handful of SO’s found out about this one, and they all flat out refused to muse me: I want him to re-enact the origin scene of Sweet Tooth from the new Twisted Metal video game. Dress up exactly like Sweet Tooth, chase me around the house with a giant machete, drag me out from under the bed, throw me around a little, and then … ya know, violently tear part of my clothing off and fuck my brains out. And choke me a little. No affection of any kind, no safe word, just raw brutal rapey sex.” – canyouchokemealittle

Matt Patches is a writer and reporter living in New York City. His work has been featured on Vulture, Time Out New York, and The Hollywood Reporter. He is the host of the pop culture podcast Operation Kino.

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