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Decode Your Erotic Dream: Meanings Behind the Most Common Fantasies

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Sex dreams. We all have them. Sometimes they’re disturbing. I once dreamt I gave Jon Hamm a handjob. (Hammjob?) It troubles me to this day that that’s as far as my subconscious was willing to take an imaginary relationship with Jon Hamm.

There are of course run-of-the-mill sex dreams that everyone has once in a while. What does it all mean? Read on…

Sex in Public

Apparently, this dream is more common for men than for women; it has something to do with men getting the chance to prove their virility in public. For both genders, it’s a way of overcoming the idea that sex is something shameful, to only be done at home or in private.

Sex with a Stranger

Both men and women dream about having sex with strangers. It’s your subconscious’s way of letting you know you don’t really feel like being in a stable or monogamous relationship. (Maybe because you’re bored in your current one?)

Sex with a Coworker

Another dream that both men and women have. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re attracted to the coworker in question: more likely, it just means you want to spice things up and break your routine. (The routine, for instance, of going to work every day, seeing the same people, etc etc.)

Group Sex

Lots of men dream of sharing their current partner with other people. In the dream, the men usually control the situation, so that they’re voluntarily making or helping their partner cheat (as opposed to being cuckolded).

Sex with an Ex

If you dream of having sex with an ex, you probably have some unresolved feelings or issues to confront. It could also just be an indication that your current relationship is starting to feel a little bit boring or rote.

Gay Sex Dream (Or straight sex dream, if you’re already gay)

It doesn’t mean you’re gay (or straight!) Often, this type of dream indicates a celebration of some sort of maternal or paternal life event, which, yes, seems weird, but there you go. (It could also mean that your subconscious is farther down on the Kinsey scale that you realize…)

Sex with your Best Friend’s Partner 

This dream probably just means that you find certain qualities in your friend’s partner attractive, and like something you’d want in a partner yourself. (It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re secretly in love with your best friend’s significant other, and thus a horrible person.)

[Via Yahoo Italia]

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