The good news: it’s fixable.
Don’t get caught taking care of someone else’s needs at the expense of your own.
If you looked into a crystal ball, you’d probably see that the problems you have now will occur in the future.
“There’s so much about us that is good. I’m wondering though, can this relationship survive?”
If every guy who gave his number to a girl was seriously considering marriage then we’d have to all move to Utah and practice polygamy.
Change your thinking around.
Is this potential love interest worth potentially losing a friend over?
Some things are a clear give-away that a guy’s interest is about satisfying a fetish.
“I don’t know what to do with this information but it’s driving me crazy.”